useful tips on use of time

Published November 22nd, 2019 in 2019 | No Comments »

Man it is easy to realize you have spent hours on Facebook or social media and gotten absolutely nothing done. So I am starting to recognize that is a terrible plan when you do get that time back you always dreamed of having.

I do think I certainly feel I have some positive contributions to generally offer in terms of directives to information that many might find useful. But I also realize it might not actually be helping anyone. I think it sometimes, as my husband says, makes me feel like I am happy to be right. That the time I am spending trying to assuage my righteousness might be better spent on my own projects, and that is absolutely true. So--although I certainly do seem to have something to say about a lot of things, that my time would be better utilized in the production and creation of my own life and goals. It is super hard NOT to contribute to the national dialogue sometimes, but I am recognizing that it certainly isn't going to secure me a heck of a lot of favor with really anyone. My husband gets pissed at me, and certainly I get ...

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freebirds to the words

Published November 22nd, 2019 in 2019 | No Comments »

I have realized this whole freedom thing I am experiencing is not the most comfortable thing. I think I would be better at it were I not totally alone in this house, but for now, I am dealing with it as well as I can. Not the freedom thing, the alone with just me and the dog thing.

I have never been free to just do what I want. I don't think most people understand what I mean by that. I mean I can literally do whatever I want to make money, and technically I can make as little or as much of it as I can. I do not have to worry about health insurance because for the first time since I was 17--I am not the one responsible for carrying it. The onus for that is on Don, and I don't envy that, exactly, but he has been getting the kinds of job inquiries that have that as something you get without having to put in the requisite 90 days--generally speaking benefits for jobs for him over the past year or two seem to start on Day 1. I have never had that kind of skill set ...

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