3 weeks and back in town

Nebraska is Nebraska. It’s prettier than Kansas but I have a hard time rationalizing the need or want to be there, I guess, beyond job necessities. I went to see him there, his job puts him out of the house for about 12 hours every day and I’d bet his loneliness sometimes eclipses mine. I…

Freedom from Health and Care is the New American Way

I have often kept my trap shut regarding certain things–most people don’t like questioning the things they think and Don tells me all the time I am never going to change any minds. And I almost ALMOST believe that is true, until I realize some of my more controversial comments continually get filtered and never…

snowflakes of projection

So I left Facebook a few days ago after getting banned for bullying. I am realizing it might not be the best place for me to spend my time debating. See, I stopped sharing things to my page, I just actively go out and debate people. I think about things from many perspectives and never…

stress is never the best

So I mentioned I resigned from the job that was literally killing me with stress. I am not sure if fully removing ALL stress is the best idea either, as when you remove it all, encountering it in any form seems to boomerang you into a worse position. It is almost as if you need…

It’s the 20’s, everyone

I have a real affinity for the 1920’s, the style and its incarnations have always made a really sweet and memorable impression on me and here we are again. I also have been saying for a little bit I’ve got maybe the decade left, primarily because of the whole menopause factor and the complications affecting…

2020 is a new thing coming to…

So I have to admit, my webcam ass has not been online since I was in my 20’s. I realized that’s actually a really weird thing to get over. Now, everyone uses filters and fancy things to make themselves look great. And I am not really ready to do that simply because I don’t want…

useful tips on use of time

Man it is easy to realize you have spent hours on Facebook or social media and gotten absolutely nothing done. So I am starting to recognize that is a terrible plan when you do get that time back you always dreamed of having. I do think I certainly feel I have some positive contributions to…

freebirds to the words

I have realized this whole freedom thing I am experiencing is not the most comfortable thing. I think I would be better at it were I not totally alone in this house, but for now, I am dealing with it as well as I can. Not the freedom thing, the alone with just me and…

It’s World Kindness Day

Speaking of that, I resigned from my job yesterday. A job I had for 6+ years. On top of it being the only job I have kept for more than 3 years ever, it was something I really enjoyed doing. I enjoyed the people I worked with, the selling process, all of it that involved…

when cruelty is the point

People never cease to surprise me at the levels of the cruelty they are willing to immerse themselves into to show you just what a piece of shit they think you are. I battle people all the time on healthcare rights and even basic things like, don’t tell me what to do with my body….


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